Ask An Educator: Threesome

14 Nov

Q: “Hello, my boyfriend and I are interested in having a threesome but we have no idea how to approach a person for that. We have fears of STDs and I don’t feel comfortable asking a friend. We need tips on how to ask a person. “

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Fall For Our Favorite Sex Toys

25 Oct

Store-favorite bullet vibrator Sensuelle Point has received a super charged update with the Point Plus. The point plus shares the traditional bullet shape with its predecessor but adds the option of interchangeable sleeves and Sensuelle’s “Power Boosted” motor that is 30% stronger than the original. Even the staff was surprised at the amount of power this thing packs and marveled at how it left our hands tingling after holding it to cycle through its 20 functions. Beginners may want to beware; this one is for those looking for a discreet vibe with some serious power.

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5 G-Spot Positions

13 Sep

As sex educators, one of the more common topics we get a lot of questions about is G-spot stimulation.

From alluding to its elusiveness and questioning whether it’s worth the hype it gets to wondering how to find it… We’ve got some G-spot focused inspiration and positions here.

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Anal Play Checklist

20 Aug

Check out this quick checklist for how to keep anal play fun and pleasurable.

  • Are you Ready? Do you have Consent?

Before even beginning to dive in, ask this: have you checked in with your desires? If it’s something your partner wants, have you considered your own comfort? Is anal something you want? If not, there’s no need to continue. With more widespread conversation about anal sex, more people are feeling pressured to participate with a partner. But without desire or enthusiasm, there is no foundation for pleasure to build from. Make sure to be on the same page.

consent comic by Rebeccca Cohen

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Ask a Sex Educator: First Time Anal

2 Jul

Q: I want to try anal but never have before. What should I do/try the first time to avoid pain?

A: Anal penetration can be a thrilling and pleasurable activity alone or with partner(s). But getting started can be daunting because of the idea that anal sex hurts – and it can if not done properly. Yet with a little know how and some good lube, you’ll be well on your way to a pain free and (hopefully) fun experience.

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