Holiday Gift Guide – Something For Everyone

2 Dec

 

Not sure what to get those that made your naughty (or nice) list? Secret Pleasures Boutique can help! Our 2016 Holiday Gift Guide offers gift ideas for everyone on your list be they lovers, friends, family members, or yourself.

We sell body safe products for a range of bodies, genders and interests. Our tags provide a glimpse of which part of the body a product stimulates and highlights some features. Please note that while each item makes a great gift for a friend, we understand that there may be some discomfort, awkwardness or just plain uncertainty around gifting an adult toy to friend. Our “friends” tag attempts to mark what we assume may be a less presumptuous (read safer) for those cases.

waterproof | battery | rechargeable | electrical | partners | solo | friends | penis shaft | penis head | clitoris | labia | nipples | anal | vagina | dual stim | g-spot | prostate |  app | bluetooth | remote control | bondage | sensation play | impact play | full body | gender expression | hands free | wearable | dual motor | silicone | ABS plastic | stainless steel | elastomer | pegging

Let’s dive on into this guide…………………

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Breast Cancer Awareness Month

5 Oct

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October is Breast Cancer awareness month and we’ve brainstormed a few ways to actively participate. Whether you’ve got breasts or not*, there are ways to be aware of, acknowledge, and learn how to support breast cancer.

*Just a reminder that everyone, regardless of sex, gender, or chromosomal makeup have breast tissue. A little more on that here.

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Six Misconceptions About Menopause

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Despite my preoccupation with my own reproduction and hormones and human sexuality in general, I have not given enough thought to menopause and that is a problem. Luckily, September is Menopause Awareness Month. And, in true Sex Educator fashion, we have decided to learn as much as we can about this life transition that impacts so many people and share the knowledge. During my research for this post, I was glad to have many of my misunderstandings about menopause clarified. I’ll try to tackle some of them but first let’s discuss what menopause is.

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Inclusionary Play Spaces

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This post will switch between using person-first and identity-first language, be sure to ask an individual how they prefer to be referred to instead of assuming!

Inclusiveness is really important to us at Secret Pleasures, and we advocate that sex positive and kinky spaces be open to individuals of all ethnicities, races, classes, gender identities, gender expressions, sexual and romantic orientations, and abilities.

Sometimes people with disabilities are left out of the conversation and all the fun because we don’t realize our spaces aren’t accessible, and this blog post is going to give some pointers on how to make play spaces accessible to as many folks as possible! Continue reading

Gender Neutral Sexytimes

22 Jun binary11

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In our last post on Gender Neutrality, we explained the societal constructs of sex and gender, and why it was important to keep language neutral and inclusive in safe spaces.

You may be a person who knows this already and so you might be thinking, “I use people’s preferred pronouns, I respect all genders, and I’m cognizant of the ways in which gender and sex are used to oppress people, but I very rarely get a chance to show people that I understand this because I don’t meet very many trans or nonbinary people.” Continue reading

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