“Do flesh lights help a guy build up his endurance, help delay any ejaculation, etc?”
We get a lot of questions in the store about the Fleshlight so we thought, who better to answer this question than the folks at Fleshlight themselves. Here’s what they told me (Flehslight’s responses are in blue).
“The short answer is yes; all Fleshlights will help re-sensitize you with prolonged use, most of all the STU (Stamina Training Unit) which was specifically designed to help build up a mans endurance, and can be viewed in detail here:
http://www.fleshlight.com/fleshlight-toys/stamina-training-unit/ (NSFW)
Most men do not realize how much damage they are doing to themselves by masturbating with their hand. Believe it or not DGS or death grip syndrome is common in 3 out of 4 men, and while it is not a disease as much as it is a condition it can cause serious problems. By masturbating with your hand you are causing yourself to lose sensitivity and while in theory that may sound like it will make you last longer it actually has the opposite effect and causes you to not recognize the sensation so when you have sex and can feel it more strongly your body responds by causing you to cum quicker. Using the STU not only brings back sensitivity but trains you to deal with intense stimulation and in turn last longer and longer in bed.”
I was intrigued by their answer and wanted to know if the de-sensitizing was in direct relation to not using lube during manual masturbation.
“Lubrication will of course help but the main problem is that when using your hand, your hand is tense and hard, and because you are literally “gripping” yourself you are not allowing your member the proper “breathing room” and are basically strangling yourself.”
So there you have it! A huge thank you to the folks over at Fleshlight for taking the time to help out with this edition of Ask the Educator!
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