My partner and I both enjoy giving and receiving oral sex. We can maximize my pleasure with a vibrator, but I’m looking for a way to maximize his pleasure as well. Any suggestion, toys, lubricants that will help me rock his world?
We love getting questions like this because they show us that partners are looking out for each other and seeking ways to make each other feel good! Good for you! We love it when couples seek ways to get even more out of their sex lives.
You mention that you and your partner are “maximizing” your pleasure with a vibrator but did you know that you can use a vibrator on him too? It’s true! Vibration can feel good on all bodies so try running a small vibe over his nipples, on the underside of his penis, and over his testicles while you give him oral.
Is he up for some anal play? Teasing the anus with the pad of your (well lubed) finger can stimulate all of the wonderful nerve endings there. You can also use a small vibe here but DON’T insert it if it isn’t a vibrator meant for anal (meaning it has a flanged base). If this is met with approval (and you talk about it before hand), you can insert a lubricated finger or a prostate toy (also lubricated … noticing a trend here) while you are going down and give him prostate pleasure at the same time!
The most important thing to remember is that oral isn’t just about diving for the penis! Men crave touch just as much as women so take time to play with all of the part of his body that turn both of you on. Most importantly, have fun! As long as you are both looking out for each other, you probably can’t go wrong!
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