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How To Choose A Vibe

14 Apr

vintage vibrator ad

The vibrator (vibe) is the most popular, well-known sex toy on the market. It quivers, buzzes, pulsates, and moves at varying speeds/intensities to provide stimulation to erogenous zones and genitals.

Many, and I do mean many (ok, almost all of us) want to be able to design THE vibrator to meet our needs; One that is strong enough, waterproof, bumper-to-bumper warranty, buys dinner, folds the laundry, and tells us that we are beautiful. The only problem is that the toy would cost $700. It is true, you cannot put a price on happiness, but you can definitely find a happy medium that suits both your pocketbook and physical desires.

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Don’t Ask. No, Really… V2.0!

21 Mar

we are beside ourselvesA few months ago, we published a blog of the most common questions that we are asked that we, quite frankly, wish would stop. The blog was so popular that we were asked to do a second edition. Who are we to argue? So here it is folks … Don’t Ask, No, Really Pt. 2!

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Your Doctor May Be Wrong – Comprehensive Health Information & Examples

18 Mar

trust me I'm a doctorYour doctor is a medical professional that you are supposed to trust, right? After all, they are someone with years of training, countless patient hours, and sleepless nights through medical school just to make the grade (one hopes). They have dedicated their life to finding a cure, bandaging bruises, mending broken bones, and ensuring that our reproductive health is top-notch.

Hundreds of commercials each week urge people to “talk to your doctor about [insert product here]”. The general public takes this medical advice, these medications, and hopes that the medical professionals know best.  

But, is it safe to assume that a doctor’s advice is infallible?

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What The Kink?! – Kinky Richter Scale

13 Feb

10_Classic Pop Comic - Lichtenstein 2012_XL

Don’t be shy, take the poll! (results are anonymous) 

1 = Shhh, Don’t Even Talk About It Enough said.

2 = Curious Mind The thoughts excites you but you wouldn’t act upon them.

3 = Sensory Starter Just a little kinky. ie: cyber, phone, or text. You’re willing to talk about it with other people.

4 = Dip Your Toes In Willing to try new things within reason. Mild  impact play/discipline, mild bondage cuffs/restraints, dirty talk and fantasy planning with others have happened.

5 = Behold: BDSM You’ve played around with basic/moderate BDSM (Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/Submission, Sadism/Masochism) with others. You’ve picked up a few toys here and there. You’re definitely interested in exploring more or keeping elements of this alive in your relationship(s)/play activities. It’s fun but not a requirement just yet.

6 =  Not ‘Nilla – You pause to try and recall the last time you had vanilla (non-kinky) sex and in the end you can’t remember. At this point, you’ve moved into the kingdom of kink; ‘normal sex’ involves kink or is kinky most of the time, if not all of the time.

7 = BDSpankMe The sensuous world of BDSM overcomes you and you bathe in the pain or pleasure of it. You’ve harnessed your kink, you are ready to play hard or go home. You are a regular BDSM participant. Kinky weekends, anyone?

8 = The Sky Is The Limit Whether you are a collared submissive or a Dominant of one/many, you could not imagine living any other way and you are happy to blaze kinky trails. You’re a lifestyler, baby!

What The Kink?! – Cuffs/Handcuffs

22 Jan

hand cuffs Art Greetings and salutations lovely internet people, and faithful followers of our blog. My name is Bettie and I will be the Captain of this ship. This is not your Disney Cruise lines typical family vacation – we kicked Mickey off 1000 miles ago! Steady on course toward exotic, erotic destinations. If you are brand spanking (no pun intended) new to bondage and want to know more, grab a lifejacket and read on. Other passengers that have a partner that is a police officer (or plays one on tv), read on. If you like frisky, resistance play… you guessed it – read on!

Cuffs/Handcuffs are:

  • quick (time saver)
  • easy to apply

  • minimal storage space needed

  • comfortable (cuffs, dependent upon the material and type)

  • durable

  • available in varying colors/styles/materials

With the same purpose in mind, wrist or ankle cuffs surround the appendage to hold a person [securely] in place. Easy peasy lemon squeezy. Continue reading

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