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Valentine’s Day & Beyond: Oral Sex Skills

31 Jan

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Valentine’s Day can inspire adventure, passion and reconnection in the bedroom. Whether you’ve been with your Valentine’s day babe for one night or one thousand nights, bringing something a little different to the bedroom is important. When we think about spicing things up in our sex lives, we can easily find ourselves down a rabbit hole of trying to learn how to do bondage, googling how to have painless anal and even thinking about threesomes. All of these are incredibly hot ways to bring something a little different to the bedroom – but let’s start with the staples of oral sex. Your oral sex game can always get better, and here are a few simple ways to surprise your Valentine with upgraded oral sex skills:

 

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More Pleasure, More Power: New Year, New Erotic Possibilities!

28 Jan

More Pleasure, more power

More Pleasure, More Power

New year, new erotic possibilities! Pursuing more pleasure in your sex life can help you expand your confidence, your creativity and your communication both in and out of the bedroom. When you start to explore what feels good, what feels not so good and what feels even better – you can often discover a new way to get turned on! Exploring new erotic possibilities gives you the chance to play, to be curious and to expand sex beyond the pursuit of orgasms. Whether you want to get kinky, or you want to build more confidence in the bedroom, or you simply want to be more present in your body during sex – here are some ways to empower your sex life and have more pleasure:

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Ask A Sex Educator: Prostate Toys

24 Sep

Ask A Sex Educator_ Prostate Toy

Question: How do I choose a prostate sex toy?

 

There are lots of different toys designed to maximize reaching and pleasuring P-spots (and G-spots!) so it can be tough to know where to get started. Prostate pleasure begins with some understanding of anatomy, brings in some exploration of prostate sensations and can involve prostate sex toys

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Ask A Sex Educator: Anal and Coconut Oil

23 Jul

 

Ask A Sex Educator_ Coconut Oil

Question: Is coconut oil a good lube for anal?

Lots of people are attracted to coconut oil as a lubricant for sex because it’s natural, long-lasting and some people enjoy the smell. Coconut oil has it’s pros and cons for sex depending on how you’re using it and there are other options for lubricants that bring slippery joy to anal sex!

 

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Ask A Sex Educator: Choosing A Cockring

30 May

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I want to try a penis ring while my boyfriend is open to it, he does not get why anyone would want to use one. How do we go about choosing one that is not intimidating but fun?

Great question! Cock rings can be used by anyone with a penis. Some penis rings are made of materials that create a fixed size, like stainless steel or wood, and many cock rings are made with materials that allow for adjusting size, like leather, rubber and silicone.

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