May is All About Masturbation Month

1 May

 

May is a great month for so many reasons: flowers are in bloom, semesters are coming to an end for students, we’re talking about mental health, and we’re masturbating with intention. Yes, May is also National Masturbation Month.

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But masturbation isn’t something that’s discussed very often in most folks’ lives (or ever).

Actually, in thinking about how rarely I hear masturbation discussed outside of our store, almost all of the very few examples I came up with had to do with popular songs that mention or allude to the act. It makes a lot of sense: music and eroticism are deeply entwined for a lot of folks, and it only makes sense that they often reference each other.

 So in honor of the month, we’ve put together a playlist dedicated to masturbation and some techniques and ideas for uniquely exciting masturbatory experiences. So grab your earphones if you’d like to follow along and let’s discuss.

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2016’s Most Popular Sex Toys

2 Jan

Bye, bye 2016 and hello 2017!  And, we’re ready to bask in the newness of 2017. With renewed optimism and excitement we’re welcoming more opportunities for self exploration, education and pleasure. But before we jump both feet into all the pleasurable moments this new year is sure to bring,  let’s take one final glance back. You will find below the top ten of our most popular sex toys from a vibrating c-rings, masturbation sleeve, p-spot, g-spot and clitorial stimulators to strap-on play. So in no particular order…

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Holiday Gift Guide – Something For Everyone

2 Dec

 

Not sure what to get those that made your naughty (or nice) list? Secret Pleasures Boutique can help! Our 2016 Holiday Gift Guide offers gift ideas for everyone on your list be they lovers, friends, family members, or yourself.

We sell body safe products for a range of bodies, genders and interests. Our tags provide a glimpse of which part of the body a product stimulates and highlights some features. Please note that while each item makes a great gift for a friend, we understand that there may be some discomfort, awkwardness or just plain uncertainty around gifting an adult toy to friend. Our “friends” tag attempts to mark what we assume may be a less presumptuous (read safer) for those cases.

waterproof | battery | rechargeable | electrical | partners | solo | friends | penis shaft | penis head | clitoris | labia | nipples | anal | vagina | dual stim | g-spot | prostate |  app | bluetooth | remote control | bondage | sensation play | impact play | full body | gender expression | hands free | wearable | dual motor | silicone | ABS plastic | stainless steel | elastomer | pegging

Let’s dive on into this guide…………………

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Breast Cancer Awareness Month

5 Oct

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October is Breast Cancer awareness month and we’ve brainstormed a few ways to actively participate. Whether you’ve got breasts or not*, there are ways to be aware of, acknowledge, and learn how to support breast cancer.

*Just a reminder that everyone, regardless of sex, gender, or chromosomal makeup have breast tissue. A little more on that here.

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Six Misconceptions About Menopause

15 Sep

Despite my preoccupation with my own reproduction and hormones and human sexuality in general, I have not given enough thought to menopause and that is a problem. Luckily, September is Menopause Awareness Month. And, in true Sex Educator fashion, we have decided to learn as much as we can about this life transition that impacts so many people and share the knowledge. During my research for this post, I was glad to have many of my misunderstandings about menopause clarified. I’ll try to tackle some of them but first let’s discuss what menopause is.

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