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Ask An Educator: Uncircumcised Hand Jobs

23 Jul

“Would you give a guy that is uncircumcised a hand job the same as a guy that is circumcised?”

sliquid silver siliconeCircumcision is a fairly standard practice here in the U.S for a variety of reasons. The practice is actually so common that many people never come into contact with a partner who has an intact foreskin. That being said, the foreskin can be a HUGE source of pleasure because of the enormous amount of nerve endings found there*.

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Ask An Educator: Decrease in Desire

22 Jul

“Okay I think my libido is gone and am only 24. I am scared to lose my husband. Help!!”

decrease desireDoes this scenario sound familiar – You used to come home and jump your partner as soon as you got in the door and now you just want to curl up with a book and go to bed? The truth is, this is perfectly normal and happens to just about everyone. Desire can be a very cyclical thing and sometimes, it just wanes due to our body cycle, the weather, stress or just … because. There isn’t anything wrong, it’s just how your body has decided it’s going to respond right now and that’s ok! The good news is that dips in libido usually sort themselves out. Now, from the wording of your question, it sounds like this has been going on for a while and has you worried so let’s look at some of the things than can adversely affect a person’s libido.

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Communicate Your Way to Great Sex

16 Apr

tin cansCommunication is one of the keys to a great sex life but unfortunately we tend to do so little of it. I can’t tell you how often I have workshop attendees tell me that they only talk about sex right before or right after they have it!  And while Cosmo would have us believe that is enough,  I strongly encourage everyone to set aside some outside the bedroom time to talk to their partner(s) about what’s going on in their sex life. Why? Well, talking about our sex lives while we are actually having sex doesn’t give us the space to have an in depth conversation about what we want, what we need, what’s going right, what’s going wrong, etc. because, quite frankly, we are busy doing other things! Does that kind of conversation sound tedious to you? It needn’t be.

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