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Ask An Educator: Silicone Lube With Silicone Toys

10 Dec

“Is there a difference between Platinum Silicone and Silicone? If so, what is it? I love silicone, can I use it with toys?”

sliquid silver siliconeSilicone lube is absolutely phenomenal for so many reasons. You can use it in the shower because it’s not water soluble, it lasts forever, it doesn’t get tacky, it’s great for folks with skin sensitivities, you can use it to get your door to stop squeaking (yes, really), Buuuuuut, one major drawback is that silicone lube doesn’t play well with some toy materials – most notably (and ironically) silicone. The reason for that being silicone bonds to silicone. When this happens, the silicone lube turns your expensive silicone toys into a sticky, ruined mess. But that doesn’t always happen … so what’s the deal? Continue reading

Consent – A Journey When Given, A Trainwreck When Not

14 Oct

reality check aheadHello to you, good people of the internet. Come with me, if you will, down the golden path of consent. Imagine that you wake up to a message from someone inviting you out for coffee. You accept this offer and think that you are going out on a friendly date with an unmarried person later in the day. You meet, greet, and the friendly coffee date is going great. They don’t have 2 heads or bad teeth, there is a lot of flirting occurring and plenty of witty banter back and forth. Suddenly your date turns to you and says “OK, before this goes on I have to tell you that I am married and my partner wants me to bring home another person.” O_o

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Sex Is Written in the Stars

18 Sep
lion king sex in the stars

Literally! How many of you remember this movie moment?

Astrology can be used in many ways, from finding the perfect timing to change careers to pursuing hidden talents. It can also offer enlightenment about our sexuality. What are your needs? What are your partners desires? Start by knowing your own needs for sex and intimacy. Then you can utilize astrology to see what kind of company you seek and harness the types of people that are drawn to spend time with you!
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