I have worked as a sex educator for over 3 ½ years and my journey with BDSM began around the same time. For me, however, my BDSM practice has always been a personal one between my partner and myself. I’ve never gone to a BDSM club or party, because, quite frankly, I was scared. I was scared that I didn’t know enough, that I would be judged or shamed and, that most basic of all fears, that I wouldn’t fit in. This surprises many people because of my profession. There is an assumption about sex educators that we know everything, have done everything and that nothing phases us. It’s not true! Continue reading
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I have worked as a sex educator for over 3 ½ years and my journey with BDSM began around the same time. For me, however, my BDSM practice has always been a personal one between my partner and myself. I’ve never gone to a BDSM club or party, because, quite frankly, I was scared. I was scared that I didn’t know enough, that I would be judged or shamed and, that most basic of all fears, that I wouldn’t fit in. This surprises many people because of my profession. There is an assumption about sex educators that we know everything, have done everything and that nothing phases us. It’s not true! Continue reading
Dipping a Toe Into the DC BDSM Scene
24 JulI have worked as a sex educator for over 3 ½ years and my journey with BDSM began around the same time. For me, however, my BDSM practice has always been a personal one between my partner and myself. I’ve never gone to a BDSM club or party, because, quite frankly, I was scared. I was scared that I didn’t know enough, that I would be judged or shamed and, that most basic of all fears, that I wouldn’t fit in. This surprises many people because of my profession. There is an assumption about sex educators that we know everything, have done everything and that nothing phases us. It’s not true! Continue reading 
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