Tag Archives: erotica

Ask An Educator: Trying Something New

23 Feb

My husband and I are like the ” blind leading the blind” when it comes to sex. I want to try so many different things. Many are outside of our small “sex option box.” I often read erotica novels and dream about being dominated, like many of the leading ladies,  but my husband is prideful with the subject and I am often left unsatisfied and disappointed. Now sex has become something that I shy away from because I already know the ending and that’s frustrating. What do you suggest ?

newGetting stuck in a sexual rut can be incredibly frustrating – especially if one partner wants to try something new and the other partner is reticent. So how do you move forward and create a fulfilling and exciting sex life while still honoring our partner’s feelings? Continue reading

Your 2015 Guide To An Erotic Valentine’s Day

26 Jan

valentines-day-penguinHow many times have you found yourself at the giving end of a default flower bouquet or bromidic chocolate? How many times have you received a gift that could have used more thought? For many, Valentine’s Day can be an overwhelming or annoying conflict of expectations vs. reality. It can also be a good excuse (as if you needed one) to give/receive something awesome from someone that you adore/fancy/want in your bed.  Continue reading

Alchemy xii – New Years Eve by Tasmin Flowers

31 Dec

alchemy, tasmin flowers, erotica2014 is swiftly drawing to a close and what better way to celebrate New Years Eve than with a spicy bit of erotica? Tasmin Flowers, author of numerous erotica stories featured in over 20 anthologies, has graced us with this exclusive excerpt from her new monthly erotica serial “Alchemy xii” which is being released tonight! How does an erotica serial work, you ask? Well, let us tell you!  Continue reading

Mother’s Day Gift Guide

30 Apr

happy mothers day

 

Moms can be erotic creatures, as well as boo-boo kissers, sports coaches, brownie makers, and stars. Thanks to the mainstream, the way that we see mothers has evolved; It is possible to see our mother’s as complete women. Don’t get me wrong, not everyone will be open to giving Mom a sex toy for Mother’s Day. But you can help your Mom feel sexier/cared for in smaller ways with flowers, bath & body gifts, as well as general health & wellness gifts. Don’t forget those other special Mothers in your life, too – girlfriend, best friend, wife, grandmother.

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Interview w/ The Wonderful Alison Tyler

11 Feb

alison tyler dark secret loveIt should come as no surprise that we here at Secret Pleasures love erotica. Erotica is a fantastic tool for adding a little zest to your relationship, adding some spice to your solo fantasies and, honestly, it’s just plain fun. And while we love a lot of writers, Alison Tyler is one of our favorites. The self-proclaimed “Trollop* with a Laptop”  is a prolific erotica writer & anthology editor and she produces some of the best stories to grace our book shelves. We recently got a chance to interview Alison via the wonder of the interwebs. Read on to see what she has to say about her inspiration, the Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon and her advice to folks who want to write erotic stories of their own!
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