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Choosing A Harness

1 Sep

Dr. Ruth Neustifter explains how to choose the right harness for you!


Tantus harness Strap-on Harnesses can be a wonderful addition to your play regardless of your gender and sexuality. These harnesses are used to strap a dildo against the pelvis, and can be worn above an existing penis or lower on the pelvis (if desired) for those with vulvas. They’re handy for penetration, as well as for exploring oral sex on a dildo. For those who use their dildo as a prosthetic penis, instead of just as a toy, harnesses allow for secure wear during play and can also be used for packing (wearing a prosthetic penis that isn’t necessarily intended for sexual play). Continue reading

Valentine’s Day Gift Guide: Sexy Edition For All

20 Jan

valentines day

 How many times have you found yourself at the giving end of a default flower bouquet or bromidic chocolate? How many times have you received a gift that could have used more thought? For many, Valentines day can be an overwhelming or annoying conflict of expectations vs. reality. It can also be a good excuse (as if you needed one) to give/receive something awesome from someone that you adore/fancy/want in your bed.

To save you the uphill battle, we have compiled naughty, erotic, and beautiful things that you will crave no matter what your romantic status (or lack thereof) happens to be. These are perfect for the couple, the kinkster, the soloist, and those that are separated-by-the-miles. Avoid the last-minute decisions, enjoy the sexy erotica that has been provided for inspiration, and indulge yourself, also.
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