Dr. Ruth Neustifter gives advice for a nervous top.
I have almost no experience with being a top during sex. I have tried it, and it never works out, making me feel insecure, inexperienced, embarrassed and terrified to try it again. Any advice, tips, tricks, must-dos, etc., that could be offered would be so very much appreciated. Thank you.
This is such an important topic and I’m very glad you asked. First, being a top could mean a lot of things and I hope that I’m guessing right. I’m guessing that you might want to penetrate your partner and also be the more assertive/dominant partner. I’ll do my best to answer for all genders; I hope that you find this helpful. Please let us know if my guesses aren’t helpful here and I’ll try again! Continue reading
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